My sister in law lives next door… her are some examples of things shes done that have made me cry or go into a rage.
- She lies about what she feeds my kids (my children eat mostly organic… I don’t like for them to have chemicals or food coloring)
- After telling her 100 times she mocks me about washing fruit and still gives my child unwashed fruit
- She sows up without calling sometimes 3 times a day
- She rolls her eyes at me when I set boundries
- She ignores my house rules
- She brings her agressive golden retriever over to my house and its snapped at my 8 month old
- Her dog growls at and snaps at MY dog in MY house and then yells at my dog to leave her dog alone
- A few months ago I made a rule that we don’t want company between 5-7 because thats dinner and bed. well she called her mother and said "They don’t want anything to do with me and they want to cut me out of their life"
- After a week she started showing up at dinner time and just before bed again.
- At my wedding she dragged her dog THROUGH my FLOWERS that were on the floor when we were making arangements
- She offered to staore my wedding dress at her house and then didnt let it out of the bag and let it get all wrinkled in the bag…. yet when she had her dress she hung it up so the train would be perfect. (that’s just mean right?)
- If I don’t answer her phone call she will drive’ walk over to my house
- When she comes over regardless of if kids are sleeping she yells "HEYYYYYYYYYY" when she walks in the door.
- She doesn’t have an indoor voice ever.
- She is the most wasteful person even THROWING AWAY not donating to charity, throwing away clothes with the tags still on them. Every year she throws away holiday decorations and buys new ones each year. She cooks for 8 then throws away the leftovers when she has 2 people over for dinner. And I am the opposite I think wastefulness is about the most aweful quality a person can have.
I want to move, my husband doesn’t want to move away from his dad cause his dad runs our finances and is our personal accountant. His father and sister are the most pushy controlling people and I’m at my wits end.
